Week 1: Resolutions and Hope for the Future

Most recently updated February 3rd, 2023

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– – I started the Awesome hike training again  this past Monday, with some yoga followed by a Dam hike  (that’s a moderate-paced 7-miler to the Dam and back).

A view from the shore of Falls Lake.
A view from the shore of Falls Lake.

This hike was on the MST at Falls Lake in the warm sunshine with friends, led by my hiker friend Heidi.

The day before I’d led a brisk 9-mile fitness hike in the morning cold, so a warmer “moderate” hike sounded like a great idea!

Well, Heidi was extra-energetic, so the pace was a bit MORE than moderate!  (Maybe it was the sunshine.) But it was still fun 🙂

Looking down at the Eno River from the trail.
Looking down at the Eno River from the trail.

Tuesday was another 7.5 miles hike, this time on part of the MST trail on the Eno river.   I also added 5 lbs extra weight to my pack.

It was a cold morning, so my hike group had dwindled to just myself and one other stalwart hiker by hike time.

That’s fine – in fact, it was so pretty we took advantage of it being “just us” to hike an extra 1.5 miles along the river.

Wednesday I took as a very light, almost rest day, because at that point I realized I’d already hiked ~25 miles in the previous 4 days, and had committed to another 20 before the end of the week.

Last year I found out the hard way that over-doing can screw up your whole season!

That Man enjoying a birthday beer!
That Man enjoying a birthday beer!

So just some yoga and upper body weights.   

Besides, it was That Man’s birthday, so we took the afternoon off and went to check out  Zinc House, a new brewery/winery in the Falls Lake area.

It was a good day to visit, because we had the place mostly to ourselves, and got a chance to meet  Muskie, the owner’s golden retriever, who was making his rounds and getting pets 🙂

Fountain at the Zinc House winery and brewery
Fountain at the Zinc House winery and brewery

Most Common New Year’s Resolutions

Even if you aren’t doing the Awesome training because of a New Year’s resolution, there’s something about the start of a new year that causes people to commit (or re-commit) to some goals for improvement.

So, what do people want to change about themselves and their lives?

A Forbes Health/OnePoll survey found the most popular resolutions for 2023 to be (in order of most to least common):

      • Improved mental health (45%)
      • Improved fitness (39%)
      • Lose weight (37%)
      • Improved diet (33%)
      • Improved finances (30%)

Some less popular resolutions include stop smoking (14%), learn a new skill (12%) and make time for hobbies (11%). 

Fitness, weight and diet were all on my radar this year – and every year!  What about you?


Thursday I led a (small but feisty) group on the Lake Trail and greenways in Bond Park and all the way to Davis Drive park and back.   

I chose this route for strength training, because it’s pretty flat and can be a good choice after a recent rain.

Friday I joined a fun exploratory hike led by another hiker friend, Michael, in search of a lost quarry in Eno State Park. 

I still had 5lbs extra weight in my pack for mild strength training.

The hike was about 8 miles altogether, with around half (I think) off trail, and some hills. 

Off-trail is harder hiking, carefully choosing your steps to avoid rocks and potholes hidden under fallen leaves, and lifting your knees high over the grasses and other obstacles. 

And of course, finding your way back.

But we did find the quarry (and our way back)  and had a lot of fun doing it!

View of a cut in the quarry from the bottom.
View of a cut in the quarry from the bottom.

Saturday was cold and rainy, so I did my kickboxing and weightlifting indoors and called it good.


What Percentage of New Year’s Resolutions Fail?

The second Friday in January has been nicknamed “Quitter’s Day”, which might give us a clue 😉

And the joke with fitness friends is that machine lines at the gym will for sure be back to normal by March.

Sadly, it’s not really a joke.

One survey (of those who responded) found that:

      • 11% lasted less than a month.
      • 19% made it at least one month,
      • 14% made it at least three months,
      • 11% made it at least six months, and only
      • 55% kept their resolution from 6 months-year.

Ugh!  That’s kind of discouraging – on the other hand, it’s more than I expected.

So, if you just keep doing something for at least 6 months – even if you start from scratch every day – you’re still doing better than half of the people!

That means if you just have persistence, and hope to do better in the future, you’ve already won 🙂


Moss covered ruins near the old quarry.
Moss covered ruins near the old quarry.

Sunday, I had a great group of hikers join me on the 6.5 mile Company Mill Trail in Umstead State Park – despite temps in the 20’s to start!   

This trail has some noticeable hills, especially right toward the end (ugh!) so it’s a great training hike.  (I still had an extra 5lbs in my pack.)

We also ran into a huge number of  blackbirds flocked to a single tree in the  middle of the forest.  We only saw them because of how loud they were!

I’d never seen that in the forest before, and it was probably due to the very cold temps.

Blackbirds congregate for warmth, to find food, and keep an eye out for predators.  
Blackbirds congregate for warmth, to find food, and keep an eye out for predators.  

This week, I also did long-form yoga or at least stretches every day.  And as for my diet… I don’t want to talk about it.  I’ll do better next week 😉

And now at the end of the week… drum roll, please…   

I’m pretty much the same.  

Well, crap.   

Hikers at the lost quarry site we found in Eno State Park.
Hikers at the lost quarry site we found in Eno State Park.

Logically, I know it will take longer than a week to see or feel any difference.

It’s okay, though.   As my kickboxing instructor says, “If you’re moving, you’re doing it!”  And tomorrow is another day!

But here’s the thing:

You DO have to do the work  – or at least some of it – every day.

      • Even if it’s boring, painful, inconvenient or all of those. 
      • Even if you start over every single day. 

It’s just going to take a while.

So, on to the next hike – which is tomorrow morning 🙂

TAKEAWAY LESSON:  Patience and hope for the future is required for training, and instant gratification is never fast enough!!


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I hope you’ve found my Training Log ramblings to be helpful- or at least amusing! 🙂   To see more of them go to my Training Log.

You could also take a look at my 8 Weeks to Awesome Training Plan post, if you want to see what kind of training I’m doing.

Thanks for stopping by – see you next time!  LJ

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Hike and Bike Your Local Greenways

Most recently updated July 7th, 2023

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We have miles and miles of local greenways available near where I live in North Carolina.

Greenways are a great off-road resource for healthy outdoor family activities like bike rides, hikes and walks.

This is especially important these days, when most State Parks and National Parks have been closed or partially closed since March- and we don’t know when we’ll be allowed to fully use them again.

Empty playground at Pullen Park.
Empty playground at Pullen Park.

At the same time, schools have been closed,  children have already been home for weeks, and they need someplace to play outside!

Fortunately, if you choose to leave your yard for outdoor activities, our greenways locally and across the State have remained open for use.

If you don’t live right next to one or haven’t explored the greenways yet, it can be hard to figure out where to go.

Best Local Greenways

Black Creek Greenway, White Oak Creek Greenway,  and the American Tobacco Trail are some of the longest and most used greenways in the Cary/Apex area.

The greenways also connect through some of the most popular local parks!  

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Walk or Run on Stroller-Friendly Routes in Bond Park

Most recently updated June 21st, 2023

Bond Park and Umstead State Park in Cary, NC are a couple of local places that I go to hike, walk and run that are easy to get to and always deliver a really good experience.

Minimum driving, maximum time on the trail is what I’m usually looking for. 

Entry sign at Bond Park in Cary, NC
Entry sign at Bond Park in Cary, NC

I’ve been using the trails and other park amenities both on my own and with my kids since I first moved to the area in 1996.

Like all of us, the park has changed over time and also – I hope like all of us – has improved with age as well.

Actually, I recently took an afternoon break to walk Bond Park’s Lake Trail, and found significant improvements to all of the the walkways and bridges along the way!   

Updated bridge on the Lake Trail in Bond Park.
Updated bridge on the Lake Trail in Bond Park.

Read on to learn about the Lake Trail and other trails and combined routes inside Bond Park.

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Simple Ways to Start Hiking – With Kids or On Your Own

Most recently updated January 18th, 2022

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When I first began hiking as a hobby, I was working at a fulltime tech job, was a single mom of a toddler with few babysitters available, and my closest family was 1500 miles away. 

Of necessity, most of my activities (outside of work) included the company of my Mini-Me, and hiking was no exception.

Hiking at Hanging Rock State Park with Peanut!

My daughter loved the adventure, seeing new things, and being an intrepid explorer with her Mama!

We explored local parks and greenways, both on foot and on bikes and rollerblades.

Then, when she was old enough, we were able to visit a lot of State Parks, and go on longer unpaved trails with more varied terrain. 

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